Yesterday we talked about Tracy’s situation.
Today, I want to talk about the way forward. Specifically, I want to talk about the strategy for getting ‘the mainstream’ folk on board with the healing we all so desperately need.
This is my story.
I was praying and meditating about how to reach millions with this healing? How are we going to make sacred and healthy sexuality and intimacy as easy and safe to practice and learn as yoga is today?
That night, I had a dream where I was with my dearest friends in a dark cottage. I was sobbing with them about ‘finding my way home’.
I smelled the pungency of pot in the air.
I woke up, it was 4:20 AM.
Since then, I have been seeing 420 everywhere.
I wondered “What has marijuana got to do with healing sexuality?”
I thought of all sorts of possibilities, but none of them made sense. Until I found this magazine in Las Vegas: http://elevatenv.com/digital-issues/
It’s a magazine about *medical* pot usage. It appeals to the masses–“help your football players get healthy by using medical marijuana!”. It’s education. It’s support.
I thought about how the FIGHT for sexual freedom is very similar to the battle for the right to use the plants which God has provided.
That battle raged for a looong time until those who wanted legalization found the way to get support and sympathy from the public:
**Appeal to those who want the sick to heal.**
This means: kids with leukemia. Mothers dying of cancer. People suffering and who were not getting relief from hospital painkillers, or where those painkillers had tremendous side effects.
Everyone wants to help cancer sufferers, right?
Everyone cares for those who are sick, right?
And this has become the doorway. First, it was a medical ‘exemption’. Then, full-on legalization.
In Colorado and Washington State, people are not having ‘reefer madness’. Society hasn’t collapsed. Death and carnage do not reign supreme. People see that.
People can be trusted with freedom to use what they need for their bodies.
Soon, marijuana will be legal everywhere.
How does this apply to intimacy and sexuality training?
Who is suffering in our society?
- The disabled
- The infirm aged (bedridden and alone)
- Veterans (22 veterans commit suicide per day, I have read)
And what heals like almost nothing else?
Connection. Touch. Affection.
Premature babies do much better when getting touch. There are studies. There is proof.
Why is cuddling as a business taking America by storm?
Because touch is a basic need.
We need to help people see that:
1. Touch *is* a basic need.
2. Those who do not have the ‘market value’ to get touch will go without it–and will be lonely, and suffer. And maybe even die.
3. There are many people willing to support those who otherwise would not have touch and healing.
4. We need to make touch as a ‘healing modality’ safe and easy to get for those who need it.
That is Phase I.
We need to come out of the shadows and begin educating and supporting people around getting touch in their lives as a first step to healthy sexuality (sex is, after all, another form of touch.)
We will talk about how we and others are doing that and can do it in the new group we are creating just for this purpose.
I personally am not satisfied with helping a few people get some relief and even some healing in the shadows. I want to change the conversation. I need to make this world a place worth living in both for myself and everyone else.
And the shift is already on.
Let me know if this resonates with you.