Category Archives: Coaching

Free Trainings

Video Training 1: How much money do you want to make? (Key to being in business) (2 mins)
Video Training 2: How do I improve my income with tracking? (Sounds boring but is super-powerful) (3 mins)
Video Training 3: How do I find out what my clients really want? (5 mins)
Audio Training 4: What is ‘deep listening’ and how can it skyrocket my business? (7 mins)
Video Training 5: 80/20 Rule (How to double or triple your income) (6 mins)

Deep Relationships

I love deep relationships.

And I spent a lot of time looking for them in the place where everyone told me they could be found: romantic love land.

But I’ll tell you what I mostly found in romantic love land. Not that much honesty. Not that much openness. A lot of hidden agendas. People who didn’t know how to say what they wanted or needed. And this included me quite often.

So I went to another place: “How about I help you reach your goals land?” And we started using money as an exchange medium instead of acceptance, love, sex, touch, empathy, and so on.

And I have found I love the relationships I find here.

I’ve worked very deeply with someone in particular for longer than a year. She jokingly calls herself “my oldest child”. Her business is soaring. Her life is transforming. And she is more open and honest and transparent and vulnerable than in any romantic relationship I have ever had–after the first few months on NRE.

And, boundaries are a lot clearer. “You are over there. I am over here.” There have been all sorts of feelings at various times, but we have always been clear about the purpose of our relationship. And so it has weathered all kinds of storms.

And now, I am inviting a few new people into that type of deep collaborative relationship. And it is rocking our worlds. I am feeling I get to be 100% of myself using 100% of my talents and skills helping them get what they want. And having my needs taken care of via clear agreements.

No wonder so many people find such deep fulfillment in their professional lives. Often the relationships are more raw, honest, vulnerable, and deep than what we are able to achieve in our so-called ‘personal lives’.

In addition, the mission is often much clearer and more unified: we know what we are doing.

I’m loving what I am creating, who I am supporting, and the world that is coming into existence via me being me.

Why you should come out of the shadows (working in the dark vs light)

Darkness to LightWebinar Signup Link – Thu. Mar 19th

Working in the shadow gets us a lot of what we want in some ways and often prevents us from getting what we want in other ways.

Things like:

  • Working under a pseudonym
  • Advertising in places we don’t visit otherwise
  • Using our body as our primary attention-getting marketing tactic
  • …and so on.

…may SEEM very useful in the beginning. But they can be crutches that can handicap our long-term effectiveness and success.

So, how can we impact the world how we want and make the money we know we deserve?

  • How do we go from ‘working in the shadow’ to ‘shining in the light?’
  • How does being transparent about who we are and what our mission is bring us more and better clients?

After being ‘in this industry’ for seven years and working and speaking with hundreds people doing massage, dakini work, and working with intimacy, I have seen what allows someone to move ‘to the next level’.

I’m hosting a conversation about this topic on: Thursday, March 19th at 11 AM PST.

We’re going to cover the above and answer your questions.

The truth is, you have both a transformation to undergo and to provide to help you move from the shadow to the light.

This conversation will be free.

Click here to sign up.

Get 90% of my coaching for free

I was listening to Josh Waitzkin talk about his coaching. He coaches billion-dollar hedge fund managers and other titans of Wall Street.

And what he teaches is:

  1. Mindfulness and
  2. Journaling.

I thought, “Hey! That’s what I teach people!”

The #1 difference between the people who ‘make it’ to where they want to go and those who don’t, is this.

The #1 thing that has changed my life most powerfully and completely, is this.

A simple, daily mindfulness practice, combined with the consciousness-building activity of writing.

It doesn’t have to be a long time. Five minutes is better than nothing. And five minutes every day adds up. Fifteen is even better.

Taking a few minutes to ‘work’ on your life instead of acting in your life can make all the difference.

This is my meditation and what I recommend to everyone who works with me.

What do they get?

Physical healing. More money. Less worry. Better relationships. It’s almost ridiculous how powerful this is for how small an investment of time and energy it represents.

But simple, small actions are what usually make the difference in the long run. Not giant, heroic things.

A 1% improvement compounded over time puts you in a completely different place than if you hadn’t.

Why is this 90% of my coaching? It’s the first thing I recommend. It’s the thing I follow up on most with accountability. And it brings amazing results–for free.

Want amazing coaching for free? Do this.